10 memorable movie fathers

10. Darth Vader in The Empire Strikes Back (1980, dir. Irvin Kershner)

Remember how Luke Skywalker’s arch-nemesis is Darth Vader (voiced by James Earl Jones)? Well, SPOILER ALERT––and good God, I hope you’re sitting down for this––he is also Dad. And with those four words, “I am your father,” The Empire Strikes Back reframed the mythology of Star Wars and made Father’s Day a real weird time in Cloud City over the planet Bespin.

9. Lt. Col. Wilbur “Bull” Meechum in The Great Santini (1979, dir. Lewis John Carlino)

Robert Duvall is all blustery machismo in this profile of toxic masculinity decades before that phrase entered the realm of public discourse. This adaptation of Pat Conroy’s autobiographical novel about “Bull” Meechum, a Marine Corps fighter pilot approaching retirement, flirts with sentimentality, but director Lewis John Carlino deserves credit for the uncomfortably on-target depiction of a curdled father-son relationship. In the film’s most lacerating scene, Meechum bullies his teenage son (a very good Michael O’Keefe) for having the audacity to beat him at backyard basketball. The Great Santini is not a great movie, but it does boast a great performance from Duvall. The actor anchors “Bull” Meechum’s periodically monstrous behavior in the familiarity of real life.

8. Ryōta Nonomiya in Like Father, Like Son (2013, dir. Hirokazu Kore-eda)

The never-ending debate of nature vs. nurture receives a novel spin in this drama by Japan’s Hirokazu Kore-eda. Ryōta Nonomiya (Masaharu Fukuyama) and his wife Midori (Machiko Ono) have a comfortable, upper middle class life in a Tokyo high rise with their 6-year-old son Keita. Ryōta is a workaholic with little time for his son, but apparently pays enough attention to make mental notes of the boy’s perceived failings. Then they discover that their biological child had been switched accidentally with another baby at the rural hospital where Midori delivered. Keita’s biological parents, Yudai and Yukari Saiki (Lily Franky and Yoko Maki), have raised the Nonomiyas’ child, Ryūsei. Yudai is a father in all the ways Ryōta is not: warm, playful, dedicated. But the Saikis are poor, and Ryōta, who presumes his financial security alone makes him and his wife more suitable parents, bristles every time Yudai offers parenting advice. Winner of the Jury Prize at the Cannes Film Festival, Like Father, Like Son is languidly paced but consistently absorbing and emotionally rich, a challenge to the importance of bloodlines.

7. Finding Nemo (2003, dir. Andrew Stanton)

As anyone who saw Bambi or The Lion King knows, children’s movies often have no qualms traumatizing young moviegoers. Maybe that’s why this Pixar classic of animation gets the psychological scarring out of the way early, when a barracuda devours clownfish Coral (voiced by Elizabeth Perkins) along with all but one to-be-hatched egg. Her demise leaves Coral’s nebbishy husband, Marlin (Albert Brooks), alone to care for the sole surviving small fry, whom Marlin names Nemo (Alexander Gould). Dad, a clownfish already prone to worrying, proves to be an overly protective single parent. When Nemo is caught by scuba divers, however, Marlin must stifle his own anxieties and venture into the big, bad ocean to find his son. Andrew Stanton and co-writers Bob Peterson and David Reynolds infuse the wild adventure of Finding Nemo with a knowing understanding of a father who must learn to balance protectiveness with trust.

6. Bernard Berkman in The Squid and the Whale (2005, dir. Noah Baumbach)

\\Divorce can turn children into weapons. Few films explore that truth as mercilessly as The Squid and the Whale. While it doesn’t break new ground, the magnitude of the film’s bitterness is startling, especially when you factor in that Noah Baumbach’s film is semi-autobiographical. Bernard Berkman (Jeff Daniels) is a deeply insecure, arrogant fiction writer who namechecks Kafka as one of his “predecessors.” Caught between him and his estranged wife (Laura Linney) are oldest son Walt (Jesse Eisenberg), who idolizes his father, and Frank (Owen Kline), who is starting to exhibit some peculiar habits. While we cannot speak to the degree of intellectual snobbery of the late Jonathan Baumbach, his on-screen alter ego is a study in unchecked solipsism (Berkman, by the way, was the maiden name of Jonathan Baumbach’s second wife).

5. Chris Gardner in The Pursuit of Happyness (2006, dir. Gabriele Muccino)

If this rags-to-riches tale wasn’t true, you’d think it had to be the invention of a motivational speaker. Chris Gardner (Will Smith), penniless and homeless in the early 1980s, remained committed to caring for his young son while working toward a career as a stockbroker. Things go from bad to very bad for Chris. He and his boy (Smith’s real-life son, Jaden Christopher Syre Smith) are evicted. Chris is hit by a car. He is forced to eat at San Francisco soup kitchens and stay at homeless shelters and even, in a particularly harrowing sequence, a subway station’s public restroom. Not surprisingly, there is a touching chemistry in the onscreen father-son relationship. Movies are rife with tearjerkers in which good people are beaten down by life. Pursuit of Happyness offers a slightly different spin, giving us a likeable and self-assured protagonist (the real Chris has a cameo toward the end) who weathers dark periods while remaining relatively free of self-pity.

4. Ted Kramer in Kramer vs. Kramer (1979, dir. Robert Benton)

Ted Kramer’s wife moves out of their comfortable New York City apartment to go off and find herself (it’s the 1970s, ‘nuff said), leaving her workaholic husband to raise their 7-year-old son (Justin Henry). Surprisingly for a low-key domestic drama, Kramer vs. Kramer turned out to be a box-office hit. Dustin Hoffman gives a warm, naturalistic, Oscar-winning performance as Ted, an advertising executive who learns what most working parents already know: balancing career and family is effing hard. Robert Benton can’t summon much sympathy for absent mom Joanna Kramer, played by Meryl Streep. In rewatching this Academy Award Best Picture winner, in fact, it’s striking to realize what a kick in the teeth Kramer vs. Kramer was to the women’s rights movement of the era. It is a measure of Streep’s phenomenal skills that she wrings empathy for someone the movie treats as a selfish bitch.       

3. Royal Tenenbaum in The Royal Tenenbaums (2001, dir. Wes Anderson)

Royal Tenenbaum (Gene Hackman) is a scoundrel. A disbarred attorney and ex-convict, he is crooked, arrogant, tactless and can’t think beyond his own self-interest. Such traits have long governed his approach to parenting. Royal is neglectful when not outright belittling to his brilliant adult children (Gwyneth Paltrow, Ben Stiller and Luke Wilson). Despite having deserted his family years ago, this once-mighty titan of finance reevaluates his life when he is kicked out of the hotel where he has been residing. Returning to his estranged family’s New York City townhouse, Royal schemes to scuttle the planned marriage of his ex-wife (Angelica Huston) to a kindly widower (Danny Glover). Hackman resented that Wes Anderson had specifically written the part for him, considering it presumptuous for the writer-director to think he knew the actor’s range. Hackman was reportedly miserable during the making of The Royal Tenenbaums and made sure everyone else was, too, calling Anderson a “cunt” throughout the shoot and grumbling that the movie would wreck his career. Perhaps his on-set irascibility worked to the film’s benefit. Hackman’s comic performance is magnificent; his Royal is a self-serving louse, but still open to redemption.

2. Jason “Furious” Styles in Boyz n the Hood (1991, dir. John Singleton)

Laurence Fishburne was never better than as Jason “Furious” Styles, father to Tre (Cuba Gooding Jr.), the teenage boy at the center of Boyz n the Hood. When Tre is sent by his single mother (Angela Bassett) to live with his father in South Central Los Angeles in hopes the man will impart some wisdom to his son, Furious proves more than up to the task. “Any fool with a dick can make a baby,” Furious tells Tre, “but only a real man can raise his children.” A mortgage broker by profession, Furious’ ideal job appears to be dad. He is tough, principled, disciplined and caring––in short, a near-perfect patriarch for a young Black male navigating a dangerous world. Filmmaker John Singleton said he based the character on his own father, with whom he was sent to live when the boy was 12. In Boyz n the Hood, Furious tells Tre, “You may think I’m being hard on you right now, but I’m not. What I’m doing is I’m trying to teach you how to be responsible.” If Singleton’s dad told him something similar, it must have taken hold. His debut made him the youngest-ever director (24) to be nominated for a Best Director Oscar.

1. Atticus Finch in To Kill a Mockingbird (1962, dir. Robert Mulligan)

Need I say more? Atticus Finch (and what a name!), a creation of Harper Lee’s 1960 novel, set the standard for the movie archetype of the wise, patient father. Director Robert Mulligan’s unfussy direction and Horton Foote’s sensitive screenplay helped ensure the film version holds its own alongside Lee’s Pulitzer Prize-winning book, but there is no understating the impact of Gregory Peck as the loving patriarch and gentlemanly Southern lawyer. The actor’s courtly manner and soothing baritone breathe life into a character who became iconic almost immediately. In To Kill a Mockingbird, the adult Scout Finch recounts her childhood––Mary Badham plays preteen Scout––and the time her father, Atticus, defended a Black sharecropper falsely accused of rape. “If you just learn a single trick, Scout, you’ll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks,” Atticus, a widower, advises his young daughter. “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view, until you climb inside of his skin and walk around in it.” How can any flesh-and-blood dad measure up after we’ve seen Peck, who won the Oscar for Best Actor, showing Scout what it means to be empathetic and courageous? 

Honorable mention: Bicycle Thieves (1948, dir. Vittorio De Sica), Eraserhead (1978, dir. David Lynch), Fanny and Alexander (1982, dir. Ingmar Bergman), The Father (2020,  dir. Florian Zeller), Father of the Bride (1950, dir. Vincente Minnelli), The Godfather (1972, dir. Francis Ford Coppola). He Got Game (1998, dir. Spike Lee), Leave No Trace (2018, dir. Debra Granik), Nebraska (2013, dir. Alexander Payne), There Will BeBlood (2007, dir. Paul Thomas Anderson)